Hopefully not a sign of the future.

[Harry J Allstars]

A sign of the future?

[mikefleet]

hopefully not.

[Guest]

i was surprised at the way things were handled at the match on saturday between 2 young lads.which was a misunderstanding between them that got out of hand,i was disgusted to see a grown adult grabbing hold of someone elses child, to which i witnessed. the child in question i see down here at most games, who seems to be a good child.this person had no right to grab hold of someone elses child, and could of handled the situation in a different matter.instead of the matter getting like it did .the child was was up set and crying . how could this adult at in this way in front of other children , i rest my case.

kids w <img src="/forum/images/graemlins/affig.gif" alt="" />ill be kids.

[mikefleet]

yes its not right but what has this got to do with the subject

[Guest]

i agree i saw the end ofthe trouble but i did witness a fully grown man drag the boy to his father. i wouldnt even touch my own child in that way and i wouldnt expect any one to do it either. since saturday i have heard the the boy who was drag by the man is take the full blunt of the trouble but i have not heard about the man who dragged him or this son being punished for there actions, which i feel is wrong and i think the club should look in to the situation more as you can not blame just one child when i know that both were involed. the kid that was punished i have also found out that he has a disablity which causes him to miss read peoples intention as the can not astablish between aggresshion and friendship. with that i rest my case. (sorry about the spelling) <img src="/forum/images/graemlins/ban.gif" alt="" /> [color:"pink"] [/color]

[Guest]

I also saw the man restaining the child, I don't think he did anything wrong, a soon as a steward was there he released the lad to the steward.

I understand the lad had bitten one of the lads (with tracksuits on) on the back for no apparent reason. When he handed the lad over to the steward the steward said that lad didn't like being held and the guy said sorry. I think everyone acted responsibly except (perhaps) the lad who bit the other young lad.

[Guest]

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I understand the lad had bitten one of the lads (with tracksuits on) on the back for no apparent reason.

Hilarious!

Biting another lad on the back for no reason? Sounds a little bit if you ask me. Lucky that he only got restrained and not a bloody good shoeing. And having the audacity to complain that he doesn’t like being restrained when it was his fault that he was a little to free with his jaws in the first place.

[Guest]

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i have also found out that he has a disablity which causes him to miss read peoples intention as the can not astablish between aggresshion and friendship.

hmmm. You didn’t fall that that old chestnut did you?

Not a bad excuse though if you ever fancy lashing out at someone is it?

“It’s okay I have this inability to be able to decipherer between friendship and aggression so I played it cautious and planted a head butt in his face anyway and proceeded to lay the boot into him just to make sure. Turn’s out he was only asking me if I wanted to buy a 50/50 ticket, but how way I to know eh?”

[Guest]

I have just reread the "female stewards" post she didn't see what happened but feels free to offer her oppinion, trying to get someone in trouble. The only female steward I saw was the girl without a stewards coat minding the gate at the away end, she was also minding a small child in a pushchair!

 

"Female steward" then says

 

"that he has a disablity which causes him to miss read peoples intention as the can not astablish between aggresshion and friendship. with that i rest my case."

 

So if that is the case (A)how was the other young boy at fault, or ( how was the guy who retrained him at fault.

 

I am glad it wasn't me holding the kid, just think what she might have said about an away fan. This is just the sort of PC posturing that gets decent people into trouble.

[Guest]

Restrained him not retrained him ...doh.

[Guest]

do you have kids of your own if so how would you feel if a fully grown man had grabbed your son. the police would only ever grab a child if they was going to arrest him so why did that man feel he had the right to put his hands on somebody else's child. if the boy had bite the other child then why he must of done something to provoke him as no one would just bite someone for no reson. why is every one blameing just one child when there was two involed. as for me trying to get some one in trouble if i wanted to get that bloke in trouble i would have called the police as im sure they would be most intrested in hearing about it. but i just wanted to say how discused i was with somebody grabbing a child like that and i know over perants would argee with me. <img src="/forum/images/graemlins/ban.gif" alt="" />

[American FLEET FAN No1]

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Anonymous said:
do you have kids of your own if so how would you feel if a fully grown man had grabbed your son. the police would only ever grab a child if they was going to arrest him so why did that man feel he had the right to put his hands on somebody else's child. if the boy had bite the other child then why he must of done something to provoke him as no one would just bite someone for no reson. why is every one blameing just one child when there was two involed. as for me trying to get some one in trouble if i wanted to get that bloke in trouble i would have called the police as im sure they would be most intrested in hearing about it. but i just wanted to say how discused i was with somebody grabbing a child like that and i know over perants would argee with me. <img src="/forum/images/graemlins/ban.gif" alt="" />

No wonder Fleet Fans worry about the Stewards!
Hardly articulate!

[Harry J Allstars]

What has this got to do with the original thread?

[American FLEET FAN No1]

Child abuse and bad stewarding..........Hopefully neither are a sign of the future!