What to do?

[EFM The Firm, The Voice]

Me and my ex-girlfriend are getting on very well at the moment, nothings happening though - sexual or even heavy petting wise - She is thinking about going back out with me but won't make a decision before Christmas, I'm not sure she will anyway, she is also seeing a bit of another ex-boyfriend but she used to do that anyway!

 

Question is shall I try and pull over the Xmas/NY period, she claims she won't, it's just I'm going to Newcastle on Thursday and the girls are well easy up there <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

[CANV EFM]

dont be a c..k .. bin the ripper n get on it..!!!

you start putting up with this crap n she will always treat you like dirt .

bail out .. if she is bothered she will be back..

im surprised you have sunk this low thornsy..

[gertcha EFM]

Of course you should. She wouldn't find out and it would be a shame to miss out on some great potential opportunities over the festive period.

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

I do tend to agree with CANV, mate.

 

She's a nice girl, but Christ, this has been going on for weeks now, and if it was meant to be the real thing, you'd be slap bang in the middle of a brilliant 'honeymoon' period.

 

People who are meant for each other don't have these sorts of problems after just 3-4 months.

 

Stay mates by all means, but look elsewhere for love.

 

 

[CANV EFM]

get shot of her completly.. if you are loved up with this bird she will run you all over the show.. make the break now and see if you can find bird from 'oop north' that weighs less than 14 stone...

pull yourself together man!!!!

[EFM The Firm, The Voice]

I'm with gertcha on this!

Look elsewhere and if it don't happen then try and sort it out in the NY!

To be fair i've known where I stand for a couple of months!

 

Anyway I can't ditch all contact as she owes me dollars!

[CANV EFM]

ugh.... it gets worse....

[CANV EFM]

im sure ive read this story in 'striker' but i never thought it really happened.!!!

[Stu B]

If you decide to get with her do it after xmas,saves money on presents.

[EFM The Firm, The Voice]

Already got her one!

[CANV EFM]

tell me this thornster all these dinners you have with her.. she picked the tab up on one yet..?

 

as a great sage once said on here.. LOSE HER.!

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

Wait til after Christmas, get yer cash back and let her decide that she wants you back.

 

Then tell her to "Go Fk Herself" - you're EFM and no-one dumps on you.

 

 

[EFM The Firm, The Voice]

We usually go halves!

It'll take ages to pay me back anyway, but that doesn't mean I have to see her I can ge post-dated cheques.

Anyway we decided on here to keep it on the backburner until new year, Baggy Mondays is usually full of women <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

[ESG]

i think the answer is in the phrase "ex-girlfriend' no?

[EFM The Firm, The Voice]

Agreed! <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />