If You Feel Like A Sinner...

[Colin Zeal EFM]

She's probably hoping she'll be Option 3! <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

 

 

[Claire!]

It is also a very wise thought!

 

You have to think about the other people that are going to get hurt in this situation.

 

First of all, the married women, she may just be looking for a little fun, and no more. When it ends, you may get hurt, or if the husband finds out he'll be hurt, she'll be upset and feeling guilty, and if there are kids in the equaltion, well, they'll be hurt, and eondering why it had to happen, was it their fault, and does mummy and daddy still love them?

 

The second option, well, she's a young mum with a 2 year old kid, and a father that regularly see's them. naybe there's still an attraction between them both, maybe they may want to get back together?

 

if she goes out with you, her link to the father will be more stronger than the link with you, and she may choose him later on, maybe becuase she loves him, maybe for the kid's sake, or maybe for added security? Who knows? Why take the chance? All this hassle, for what? A bit of "harmless" fun.

 

[Colin Zeal EFM]

I feel sick. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

 

 

[Claire!]

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She's probably hoping she'll be Option 3! <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Sorry, but i don't do internet dating, you never know id the other person is who they say they is

[Colin Zeal EFM]

I thought it was you who met some guy on the internet and went out with him for a while?

 

It was one of you lot, I'm sure??

 

 

[AFF]

It'll be Helen next.

 

Bad news. The sun's over the yard-arm. 1/2 oz of finest Moroccan. Today could be a real blast!

 

[You're lucky Zealster. C missed the waitress bit.]

[SteveP]

You see, this is the problem, a women's mind is always based upon consequence and looking at the whole picture.

 

Now MKJ she may very well be giving cohesive and correct advice but why not say damn the consequences after all you only live once and it would be a waste not to.

 

Just a thought, if I was being really world wise and careful I'd go option 3. But if I was actually you, I'd go option 2.

[Colin Zeal EFM]

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[You're lucky Zealster. C missed the waitress bit.]

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[Claire!]

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I thought it was you who met some guy on the internet and went out with him for a while?

It was one of you lot, I'm sure??

I wasn't me! <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

[MK James]

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Sorry, but i don't do internet dating, you never know id the other person is who they say they is

Works both ways, believe me! I don't agree with all that 'dating agency', 'blind date' , 'internet groups' etc. etc., Well it don't work for me, I'm not desperate or lonely! You meet women through friends/work , if more develops - quality!

Although I'm the 'real' MKJames! All the others are just pale imitations!

[Claire!]

Exactly my point there! Put in a nut-shell!

[YELLOW]

MK James, this is not some veiled attempt at saying you are disillusioned with your football team and you can't decide whether to folllow Enfield FC or Enfield Town?, These women don't really exist at all, do they?

 

Anyway go for option 3. Dump both of them and find some fit 20 year old. You'll be better off in the long run!

[MK James]

 

You couldn't be more wrong Yellow Army, although the EFC /ETFC analogy is a good one. With ETFC I went to the first friendly- it just didn't feel right, I knew I couldn't watch them instead when Enfield Fc were playing. If EFC fold, I'll consider it, but a long way to go to watch Essex league football, I can watch about 8 teams round here of that standard(and have done when I was a student and short of cash)

 

If you're questioning my loyalty, option 2 hasn't happened yet, and I suppose one of SACFC ladies would say in the case of option 1, you're cheating on her by thinking about it, but I've always thought it was a short-term thing, just 30 months can fly by quicker than you think...

 

[mdetaylor]

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Bad news. The sun's over the yard-arm. 1/2 oz of finest Moroccan. Today could be a real blast!

I thought you were a respectable member of the community!

[AFF]

Greetings mdet.

 

You missed an interesting 15 minute spell on here yesterday afternoon.

 

Helen came on here and from her postings, she appeared a little, shall we say, 'tired and emotional'. There was some discussion about the causes and, in any event, the thread was deleted. Helen hasn't been banned but she is conspicuous by her absence today.

 

Oh, by the way. No it hasn't completed yet.

[mdetaylor]

Try multi party crane licences - the thing has been put up and taken down before anything completes!

[mdetaylor]

Very pleasant lunch today was taken in Gray's Inn on the lawns - small spinach and ricotta foccacia sandwich, a little tuna and pasta salad (fine Italian takeaway, only other branch in Milano) and a San Pellegrino sparkaling grapefruit juice - started with a nice glass of cold Verve Cliquot (just the one).

 

May well sneak off early for a cheeky Stella before moving on to Shepherd's Bush for dinner - not bad for a work day.

[Guest]

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Dilemma...

Option 1. C&FDaniela (30) lives in London, is married, and isn't going to leave her man, total opposites and yet 2.5 years ...

Option 2. MKJanine (21) fit as the proverbial, single, we're getting on too well...but she has a kid

It could all end in tears..., have I got the right forum?

MKJames, I can't believe what I'm reading.

I thought you'd always be true to me, and now I find out about this... this... FLOOZY!

How long has this been going on? Have we been living a lie all this time??

I'm devastated. <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

[YELLOW]

Is that you in the picture, CF Daniela?

[AFF]

Typical.

 

What about completion of the multi-party crane licence, that's what I'd like to know?

 

Do you remeber that Solicitor about 10-15 years ago where the client took him to the Law Society and then Court over fees. As I recall, it was a somewhet complex patent case and the lawyer submitted a fee account for about £1 million. Tha client was less than pleased and queried the amount.

 

The time sheets were examined in some detail and it terned out that the lawyer had been invited to the client's daughter's wedding. Old family friend and all that stuff. Anyway, on the time sheet for this particular Saturday was 6 hours!

 

I may be wrong but I think that the Law Society saw nothing untoward but the Learned Judge cut the fee by about 60%.