If You Feel Like A Sinner...

[MK James]

 

Dilemma...

 

Option 1. C&FDaniela (30) lives in London, is married, and isn't going to leave her man, total opposites and yet 2.5 years ...

 

Option 2. MKJanine (21) fit as the proverbial, single, we're getting on too well...but she has a kid

 

It could all end in tears..., have I got the right forum?

[Colin Zeal EFM]

I'd swing towards Option 2, but both sound like they have baggage.

 

Is there an Option 3??

 

 

[MK James]

There's always an option 3...

 

But I really like 1 & 2. I can't decide. I'm sure Deirdre would tell me the right thing to do.

[SteveP]

Option 2 MKJ, just remember you can always buy the child's love later!!

[Colin Zeal EFM]

Yeah. 1 would definitely end in tears, and probably a visit from the boys! Don't get involved!!

 

2. Single. Fit.... how old is the kid? Is the Dad still about??

 

 

[SteveP]

Good point, watch out for the Dad, the kid must be reasonably young, so start buying the affection in, it will be fine really...

 

You could run the two at the same time, kinda like try before you buy!

[ESG]

2 . definitely

 

you aren't a mate of mine from watford perchance? LOL

 

same boat as (2)

[MK James]

 

I know Option 1 is not long-term- it can't be. Option 2- he's local so he'll always be around to see his son (2 years old).

 

My mind says ditch Option 1, resist Option 2 and wait for Option 3, but then again life's too short...

[SteveP]

well then it boils down to if the ex is a pyscho or not really.

 

See you'd regret not trying option 2 and you don't know if you don't try, in other words, "He who dares Rodders"

[MK James]

 

No ESG, I can't say I'm too keen on Watford...

 

Hmmm, everybody saying 2. I forgot to mention Option 1- no kids, hates her husband but he's well off...

[Colin Zeal EFM]

He can afford to send the boys round then, can't he <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

 

 

[Rob_the_Saint]

Hmm, option 1 could just be saying she hates her husband but is bored and fancies a 'bit on the side'.

 

Can't wait for Helen and C.Hart's input on this one!

[MK James]

 

Yes, and if he knew he would... <img src="/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

 

But you must know what it's like when you don't want to give up a good thing...

 

I've always known Option 1 won't last, I think you can guess why I'm still there! I'll do the right thing, I just keep putting it off, until now...

[ESG]

option 1 dont do it

 

 

watford, why the beef?

[SteveP]

Well you know what you should do in all life-changing decisions like this, toss a coin.

[MK James]

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watford, why the beef?

Sometimes you meet people and they form your opinion of their team, like Thornsy did with those Ipswich fans. Well I had a run-in with a retard when I was still at school, which still results in animosity between us even when we meet now. Guess which team he supports. And those fake hoolies support watford as well!

[ESG]

fair enough

[Claire!]

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Can't wait for Helen and C.Hart's input on this one!

Blimey you read my mind there!

Basically, why don't you try and find a nice single girl, with no ties, or comitments? Trust me, there are loads or ladies that are single, so i shouldn't think it would be a problem to find one!

Also, if you are questioning which one to choose, maybe you don't want either one? Just because they are there, it doesn't mean you have to have them.

[MK James]

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Just because they are there, it doesn't mean you have to have them.

That's a very interesting thought!

[SteveP]

Ignore C Hart, she's just a spoil sport!!